Before you say "I Do"

WOW – CONGRATULATIONS! This is one of the most exciting times in life! You have finally committed to spending the rest of your life with your special partner. Doesn’t it feel great to have someone love, admire and trust you so much that they want to spend every day with you? Actually, there is no better feeling in the world, than the true feeling of being loved by the person you love most in this world. This is an amazing time.
But, with the passion and excitement in the beginning, “love can be blind”. You need to realize some critical characteristics and expectations about your future life partner. Some of these expectations are generational while others are learned. Totally committing yourself and your life to someone else requires you to do your homework and really learn about your future partner. You need to know some important features and expectations about this future spouse and really understand who they will be, even after the “Honeymoon Phase”.
Following are a few very important questions that you should talk about and understand before you say ‘I DO’. At the end we will give you information about an incredible human assessment instrument, called ‘The Ultimate Life Tool’, which will give you some amazing, objective, scientific information about your future partner. This tool will allow you to better understand the innate abilities, motivations, preferences, ways to relate and communicate, levels of activity, energy and clarity. The better you know your partner the better the chances for a successful and fulfilling marriage.
Following are a few of the important topics and expectations to understand before you say “I DO”:
Financial Expectations – Who will be working? Current financial obligations?
Savings strategy? Retirement?
Children - How many? Private or public schools? Spirituality?
Spirituality expectations?
Where you expect to be in 5, 10, and 20 years?
Critical information for you to understand - Previous marriages? Current children? STD’s and other vital health information?
Expectations about holidays and family involvement?
Everything that is critically important to you!!
As important, wouldn’t you love to know more about the exciting natural abilities and motivations of your future partner? Go to The Ultimate Life Tool and take the test. Congratulations again and remember the best marriages are not an accident!

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Karen Scanlon
YCG Certified Specialist

Love is a Dance

MOVING THROUGH LIFE NATURALLY

Do what you love and the money will come.
How many times have you heard that? Often business professionals and executive coaches spend session after session trying to assist their clients in gaining clarity as to what change to make. The key word is "CHANGE". It's the one thing that we all know we can count on and the one thing that serves at the epicenter of love or loving well enough to be successful. Many people often do not get lessons in learning how to love their work, or in embracing their job responsibilities and managing the differences that come with being surrounded by many various personalities. Instead it is something they do as a means to an end. In fact the word LOVE on an executive business forum or an employment site is almost unheard of. Yet, LOVE is everything when it comes to achieving success naturally. Gain that comes naturally, gives us energy.

I can't tell you how many people have come into my office saying. "I don't even know what love looks like!" or "what it feels like!" The truth is, LOVE is not a look or a feeling... it is a movement. That's right. Love is having the ability to adjust, flex and flow in the face of harmony and adversity. It's being able to shift gears, change plans, take over, hold back, organize, stir things up, laugh, cry and even disappear when you know it will serve the situation best. All too often we stand glued, attached and fixated to an expectation or imagined outcome. The result frequently becomes more important than the relationships leading up to the grand finale. Guess what? It's always about the relationships.

Love in a relationship is an exquisitely improvised piece of choreography ever revealing new lyrical sequences that entertain and enlighten our existence. It usually starts out as a soft prelude and as time goes on the steps we take become a reflection of the choices we make. Ask yourself, how well do you move through your life and in the management of all your relationships? If you move well... then you LOVE well. It's just that simple.

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Matchmaking is about Self-Discovery

Matchmaking is discovering what is right for you on all fronts... in love, in work, in play, in life. There is the perfect partner, the perfect career, and the perfect plan. In studying matchmaking we discover who you are and what that means. You will recognize your ideal on sight in minutes. The anxiety that comes with making the right decision will fall away and the time you spend in making vital decisions about the love of your life will become instantaneous rather than impulsive. This allows you to seize the moment rather than later looking back in hindsight wishing you had taken action.

With the wisdom of Y.O.U., you will acquire a heightened awareness of what lies in the obvious. All too often we dismiss what stands right before us. In today's world we are in such a state of information overload and bombardment that we can't see the forest for the trees. This means it's very easy to overlook the man of your dreams; the one that the universe put on this planet for you to connect with. He essentially gets lost in the chaos of this lifetime's mind chatter. The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking will teach you how to clear the room so you can see him standing before you.

You may be asking, "What sets this body of information apart from other profiling systems? How does this differ from Meyers-Briggs, Littauer and Jungian theories of personality typing? Where does this intersect with Carolyn Myss' archetypes and John Gray's Mars Venus analysis? The answer is simple. Y.O.U. is objectively you upon discovery. Other typing systems are layers of refinement that clothe and enhance the body of Y.O.U.

Body Typing is one of five revealing aspects used in the once highly revered process of Matchmaking. We refer to it as Personal Style. It is the beginning of a very basic understanding of Y.O.U. There are seven distinct Styles when identifying men and women. Personal Style being the most obvious, becomes the most essential in identifying the ultimate partner. It tells us in objective terms what kind of being we are dealing with. If you were looking at a tree, you may be able to tell at first glance that it is an Oak tree as opposed to a Willow. If you were looking at an automobile you may have enough information at first glance to know that you are looking at a Mustang versus a Corvette. People are no different. They are as easily distinguishable as are types of trees, cars, dogs and cats.

There are Seven Personal Styles

Once we educate ourselves and come to know and understand what kind of vehicle serves as home for our spirit, then we can make decisions that are more suitable for its optimal growth and in planning its journey. Refining this part of the process is fun and revealing. Often times things begin to make sense for the first time in a long time. You begin to no longer blame yourself or others for past failures but realize that much of what we fail at is based on signing up for something that is not in alignment with our Personal Style. For example, one would not take a Ferrari on an unpaved mountainous excursion. It's not that it can't be done but chances are the car will be in need of great repair at the journey's end and the price that one will pay to restore it may not be worth it. The same is true for many human beings. Their personal style simply does not afford them the luxury of traversing rough terrain.

PERSONAL STYLE is just the beginning. The Ancient Wisdom of Matchmaking considers several areas of importance. In getting to know Y.O.U., you will not only come to discover the laws of maximum attraction and repulsion but also come to understand the great purpose that each person serves in being present in your lifetime. This allows all of us to get closer to understanding the role we all play in contributing to the betterment of the whole.

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Without Even Saying a Word

The ‘story’ the world tells us as little girls is that one day “without us even saying a word” our prince charming, a man of great social stature and of great accomplishment will be brought to us. He will ride up on a shiny white horse, he will come bearing gifts, and he will by shiny and perfect…. as we should be too.

The story or at least the message goes on to tell us that we must mold our bodies into what society has deemed beautiful. We must remain innocent and naïve, pure, untouched by life, ready to become one with that special partner….all of which relieves us of the duty and the right to develop into a full blown woman with boundaries and preferences, likes and dislikes, and a life all our own….but according to society if we can keep our canvas blank, he will ride up, sweep us off our feet, and wisk us away into a life we could only dream of.

We have all heard this story, but still it is becoming more understood that as women we can choose to allow ourselves to mature from girls to women who know ourselves, and that in doing so we can take part in identifying a partner that is truly best suited for us…because we can look from a standpoint of knowledge and empowerment.
The Ultimate Life Tool is an assessment for anyone wanting to look from this new perspective.

If you want to honor who you came in the world to be, and if you want to find the partner that is best suited for you, then The Ultimate Life Tool is where you begin. If you are willing to look beyond what society says you should be and who you should be with, then you will want to use The Ultimate Life Tool.

Maximum attraction is not determined by what society deems beautiful or attractive, it is determined by who we truly are in are wholeness, and what type of person (in their wholeness) best complements us, and who we best complement. What is so beautiful about coming into our fullness using the Knowledge of You? You will be able to fully embrace yourself in full bloom, and you will begin to see beyond society’s ideal to your own maximum attraction. This can create a love that can last a lifetime, rather than a love that simply looks good from the outside.

The fun part of this ‘new story’ in which you get to be yourself in full bloom is that by using The Ultimate Life Tool you CAN “without even saying a word” SEE your prince charming based on YOUR maximum attraction. So, I choose to write a ‘new story’. I choose The Ultimate Life Tool. I choose to be me.

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