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Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Before you say "I Do"


WOW – CONGRATULATIONS! This is one of the most exciting times in life! You have finally committed to spending the rest of your life with your special partner. Doesn’t it feel great to have someone love, admire and trust you so much that they want to spend every day with you? Actually, there is no better feeling in the world, than the true feeling of being loved by the person you love most in this world. This is an amazing time.
But, with the passion and excitement in the beginning, “love can be blind”. You need to realize some critical characteristics and expectations about your future life partner. Some of these expectations are generational while others are learned. Totally committing yourself and your life to someone else requires you to do your homework and really learn about your future partner. You need to know some important features and expectations about this future spouse and really understand who they will be, even after the “Honeymoon Phase”.
Following are a few very important questions that you should talk about and understand before you say ‘I DO’. At the end we will give you information about an incredible human assessment instrument, called ‘The Ultimate Life Tool’, which will give you some amazing, objective, scientific information about your future partner. This tool will allow you to better understand the innate abilities, motivations, preferences, ways to relate and communicate, levels of activity, energy and clarity. The better you know your partner the better the chances for a successful and fulfilling marriage.
Following are a few of the important topics and expectations to understand before you say “I DO”:
Financial Expectations – Who will be working? Current financial obligations?
Savings strategy? Retirement?
Children - How many? Private or public schools? Spirituality?
Spirituality expectations?
Where you expect to be in 5, 10, and 20 years?
Critical information for you to understand - Previous marriages? Current children? STD’s and other vital health information?
Expectations about holidays and family involvement?
Everything that is critically important to you!!
As important, wouldn’t you love to know more about the exciting natural abilities and motivations of your future partner? Go to The Ultimate Life Tool and take the test. Congratulations again and remember the best marriages are not an accident!

LEARN MORE!  BUY THE BOOK TODAY!

Karen Scanlon
YCG Certified Specialist

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